Words are Not Morally Neutral
Abraham Piper recently blogged:
“To believe that all swearing is wrong, you also have to believe that our culture is right. Social customs define what’s taboo. Therefore, saying taboo language is uniformly sinful implies that our social customs uniformly align with God’s will.”In other words, as some of my friends tweeted: “To believe all swearing is sin, you have to be OK with culture being the arbiter of right & wrong.”
My response?
No you don't.
First of all, contemporary culture is perfectly fine with swearing. Since when does culture denounce swearing (or anything for that matter) as right or wrong? Modern Christianity and some more conservative circles may put restrictions on swearing, but culture doesn't. Watch television, celebrities, politicians, and people in everyday conversation. They swear a lot. In our culture, swearing is far from taboo.
Secondly, as representatives of Christ on earth, we want to speak in a way that is loving and respectful, not filthy. Culture doesn't pronounce that certain words are wrong; culture associates certain words with concepts that, when normally used, mean either sexually descriptive or hatefully slanderous things. The words have been given negative connotations; they are the verbal equivalent of a tight tank top and low riding jeans on an immodestly dressed girl. Immodest clothing may cause your brethren to stumble. So may immodest words cause your brethren to become confused and return to hateful or wrongheaded thoughts.
Scripture says that your words always proceed from your heart, thus the words that a Christian uses in speech give the world a picture of what that Christian thinks in his heart. Will you represent your heart with wisely chosen words or words that culture has associated with banality, filthiness, hate, and / or lust?
We are mistaken if we think that words are morally neutral and that they do not have connotations or associations that are harmful and ungodly. I doubt that any Christian would walk into a public place and proclaim proudly that he is a pedophile. The Greek roots of the word give it the meaning “friend of children.” The modern association of the word gives it a new meaning: “perverted sex predator.” A guy using the word might intend it the first way, but he’s a fool to think that anyone else but himself will interpret it that way. Try explaining that one in court.
To just say that accepting word associations means that culture is dictating morality is over-simplification: culture, civilizations, and society always give meanings to all words. That’s how we communicate. Communication is a central part of civilization. This is basic stuff. The English language wasn’t spoken down to us from heaven, it was developed through centuries by the communications of sinful people. Thus, certain words are used for good things, and certain words are used for sinful things.
Racist words, for example, are wrong not because the culture says so, but because they have become associated with hatred of certain people groups. Sexually explicit terms are not only used in hateful ways but are also part of the lingo used by the modern porn industry to promote their products. These words are “taboo” (and I use that term loosely) not because the culture simply doesn’t like them, but because the words are associated with hurtful, greedy, selfish, and sinful things.
Supposedly Paul used an equivalent of the s-word once somewhere in Scripture. Once. Elsewhere, on numerous occasions, the Bible denounces the use of filthy, vile, and hateful speech: Psalm 10:7, 37:30; Proverbs 10:31-32, 15:4; Matthew 15:10, 18-20; James 3:10-13. The Bible warns Christians to be gentle in speech, to rule their tongues with wisdom, and that every spoken word comes from the heart.
Will you base your understanding of the proper use of the tongue on one single Greek word used by Paul, that may or may not mean something more than “waste,” or will you base it on Scripture’s teaching as a whole? The s-word has connotations in our day of demeaning, hateful speech, and is almost always used in a negative way. To say that the word Paul used in a different language and a different culture and a different society is the exact equivalent of the s-word seems more like wishful thinking than an honest reading of Scripture.
When we go before a crowd of people to speak, especially if the crowd is full of dignified persons like professors, scholars, politicians, pastors, and such, we dress nicely and formally so that we may make a good impression. We do not wear tank tops and jerseys, sweat pants or low-riders. At least, we shouldn't. Not because society is the arbiter of right and wrong, but because we, as Christians, are walking representations of the Gospel to the world around us, and we want to present the Gospel in a way that is wise, dignified, pure, holy, and thoroughly wholesome and good. Let the Gospel and the words of the Bible offend the world, rather than using the crude, rude, and dirty words of the world to offend Christ and your Mother, the Church.
Edit: I would like to clarify that I love and respect Abraham Piper and my friends, and that I only wish to critique the argument as it stands, rather than those who made the argument and who are in many ways wiser than I am.





